… After months of dating Mr.Confused finally thought it
was time to address the fact that he has time/scheduling issues. The man is
busy we get it, aren’t we all a bit too busy? Clearly he was into it and I knew
he was doing his best. But what happens when ‘his best’ falls too short? I’ll
tell you what, you decide to call it quits on dating but say yes to friendship.
After nearly a month of no communication we decided to “hangout” again. Both
hoping we’d had enough time to get over it and give this friendship deal a real
shot. So? Yay for a movie night, right?’
Well, yes, but how can going to the movies with your
friend leave you so “Dazed and Confused”? I’ll tell you how, things hadn’t
changed. I don’t know about you but I’m not in the habit of being overly affectionate
with platonic friends. This was beyond the friends zone. We fit naturally like
we always had. The butterflys, the giddy feeling, the knowing gaze, the stolen
glances, it was all still there. The genuine like, the physical chemistry, the
‘tell me every little thing that’s been going on with you in details because I
want to be immersed in you’, it was all the same.
The only thing missing was the pressure of a four letter
word, that seems to have the power to turn all of us inside out, DATE. That
word does it all. So what do you call a more than friends but not a date movie
date?
It can’t be this hard…it’s not that hard
