...thought I’d be bold and take charge; go after what I wanted. After countless self administered pep talks, I felt empowered and brave enough! Thinking, 'if I always sit around waiting for the guy to make all the moves, I’ll never get anywhere'. Well the feeling of empowerment didn’t last long…
I approached him on Facebook after only one meeting. My best friend did most of the recon work considering this guy is her cousin. I said the things I would want a guy to say to me and gave him my phone number. I wanted to meet in person to see if there was a spark but he mentioned he was busy the whole month because he was moving. He said we could talk via FB until his schedule cleared up. I agreed after making it clear that so long as it was temporary.
More than a month later I suggested again that we should meet up. After a week he finally wrote back and said this month was bad as well. His classic line had turned into, “…soon, but until then we can be friends here on facebook, if you like.”
Why would he say he is interested in getting to know me only to constantly put me off? You can only converse through Facebook messages for so long! After a while you want some human contact with the person you are getting to know.
Come on, is it really that hard?
Come on, is it really that hard?
such a doucheeee. honestly its not that hard to meet up for coffee for like 30 mins almost...the best part is when u see pictures of these DB's partying and hanging out with other people...its not that they dont have time...they dont want to make the time for you.
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